10 Color & Style Questions Every Midlife Woman Asks (And What You Really Need to Know)

- 0 comments

If you’ve ever looked in the mirror and wondered, “Why does this color make me look so tired?” or “Am I supposed to stop wearing black now that I’m over 40?”—this episode of Midlife Moxis is for you. Jen and Gail are back, answering 10 of the most common questions midlife women ask about color, style, and how to feel vibrant and confident in their appearance again.

We’re talking color theory, wardrobe strategy, makeup, aging, confidence, and yes—even that mystery of whether going gray changes your palette.

Watch the episode below or read on for the highlights 👇

🎥 Watch the Episode:
10 Common Color & Style Questions Midlife Women Ask
With Jen Vax & Gail Scott – Midlife Moxie Podcast

🌟 Top Questions We Answer in This Episode:

1. How do I know which colors actually look good on me?
It’s not just about liking a color—it’s about how it reacts with your skin tone, undertones, and overall coloring. We explain what to look for in the mirror, how to self-assess, and why some colors make you look radiant and others... just tired.

2. Why don’t seasonal color systems work for me anymore?
Jen explains why she created the Your Color Style system after years of working with seasonal color analysis—and the gaps she saw that left out women with gray hair, olive skin, and non-standard coloring.

3. Can I still wear black if it’s not in my palette?
Short answer: Yes, but not how you think. We share tricks for wearing black (or your version of black) in a way that still flatters you—plus what to do when black dominates your closet.

4. How do I wear bold colors without feeling like I’m screaming?
Bold doesn’t have to mean bright. We break down the difference between saturated vs. neon, and how to ease into color without feeling like you’re wearing a costume.

5. What colors make me look younger and more vibrant?
Hint: It’s less about “younger” and more about healthier, fresher, and more alive. Jen and Gail explain how to use your signature colors, contrast levels, and makeup to boost vibrancy at any age.

6. Does going gray change my color palette?
Not exactly. While your undertones likely remain the same, your best colors may shift based on contrast and harmony. We explain how to adapt your palette (and avoid the dreaded brassy blonde trap!).

7. How many colors should I have in my wardrobe?
This one’s all about strategy. We recommend starting with your best light and dark neutrals, then adding three to five key colors that mix and match easily.

💄 Bonus: We Talk Makeup, Too

From how your lip color affects your whole look to why a little shimmer on your lids can make your eyes pop (especially behind glasses), we share quick tips that make a big impact. You’ll also hear all about Gail’s upcoming Midlife Makeup Intensive and why it’s a must-attend event for women 40+.

🛍️ Get all the details and sign up here.

✨ Final Thought: You Deserve to Be Seen

Whether you want to stand out or just feel “put together” again, your colors are the gateway to showing up with confidence. We're not here to change you—we’re here to help you rediscover what already makes you beautiful.

❤️ You’re not too old. You’re not invisible. And you’re definitely not alone.

💬 What’s one color you love but aren’t sure you can wear? Drop a comment below—we’d love to help you find your perfect version!

Links Mentioned:

Jennifer Vax

Jen Vax is the founder of Your Color Style. She is a best selling author, speaker, artist and entrepreneur. She helps women learn how to wear color in a way that expresses their true nature. Take the FREE color analysis quiz to get started.