Midlife Moxie Podcast: Why We’ve Gone Too Casual — and How to Fix It

In this episode, Jen and Gail get real about how our culture has become way too casual. From pandemic-era sweats to “I just rolled out of bed” outfits at restaurants, they unpack why this shift happened — and how to reclaim your confidence and style without sacrificing comfort.

They share funny stories (including Jen’s infamous grocery-store outfit fail), give practical tips on how to elevate your casual looks, and challenge you to rethink what “comfortable” really means. Whether you’re heading to the office, the wine bar, or just the grocery store, this one’s a wake-up call to show up for yourself — and look fabulous doing it.

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In This Episode:

• Why America has gone too casual — and how COVID changed everything

• The difference between “comfortable” and “sloppy”

• How to elevate your everyday casual pieces with small tweaks

• Why fit, fabric, and finish matter (yes, even for t-shirts!)

• The new rules for casual office wear

• How to honor your personality and your professionalism through your clothes

• Jen’s confession: the day she wore a company t-shirt to the wine bar 😳

• Gail’s “elevate your look” checklist — small things that make a big difference

Style Takeaways:

✨ Fit is everything. Even a t-shirt can look chic if it’s tailored for your shape.
✨ One swap = instant upgrade. Trade sneakers for ankle boots, or your sweatshirt for a blazer.
✨ Details matter. Press your clothes, clean your shoes, wear real jewelry.
✨ Your vibe is your brand. Whether it’s your office or your errands, you’re representing you.
✨ Show up for yourself. Dressing with intention boosts confidence — and how others see you.

Challenge of the Week:

Take one casual outfit and elevate it.
Swap one piece. Add a bold color. Polish your sneakers. Throw on jewelry.
Then tag @yourcolorstyle to show us your “before and after.”

Quote of the Episode:

“Just because everyone else looks like they got dressed in the dark doesn’t mean you have to.” — Gail Scott

Jennifer Vax

Jen Vax is the founder of Your Color Style. She is a best selling author, speaker, artist and entrepreneur. She helps women learn how to wear color in a way that expresses their true nature. Watch the FREE webinar "3 Steps To Disovering Your Colors.