How Your Wardrobe Choices Are Aging You Faster Than You Think
Have you ever caught your reflection in a shop window and thought, "Was that my mother?" If so, you might be wearing garments that add a decade (or two) to your age. It’s crucial for middle-aged women to navigate the fashion landscape wisely. With the right wardrobe choices, you can enhance your youthful spirit instead of letting outdated styles determine how others perceive you. In this post, we’ll explore garments that unintentionally age you, while also offering tips on how to revitalize your wardrobe. Get ready to rediscover your style as we dive into the realm of fashion faux pas and style saviors!
The Garments That Might Be Aging You
Building a stylish, age-appropriate wardrobe can be a minefield when every piece of clothing in stores seems to scream "youthful energy" or, conversely, "matronly chic." It’s often difficult to determine what looks fresh versus what looks like it came straight from a vintage store’s backroom. Here are some common garments and style mistakes that could be unintentionally adding years to you:
1. Boxy Tops Are Not Your Best Friend
Boxy tops are often an easy go-to for comfort, but here’s the reality: they can be quite unflattering. If you have a garment that billows out like a parachute, it might not showcase your figure in the best light. Instead, opt for tailored or fitted tops that emphasize your silhouette and create a flattering shape. Don't hide in your clothes, wear them.
2. Frumpy Cardigans are just that, Frumpy
Who doesn’t love the cozy embrace of a cardigan? However, the wrong cardigan can transform your chic ensemble into an elderly look. Loose and shapeless styles should be avoided at all costs. Instead, aim for fitted cardigans that can be styled with a belt or paired with structured pieces for a sharp look. If it is big and boxy and looks like tissues should be coming out of the sleeve or pockets, skip it!
3. Dresses That Are Not the Right Length for Your Body
Let’s face it, certain dresses may seem comfortable but can utterly fail in the style department. Dresses and skirts that are too short look juvenile and those that are too long seem matronly and out of place at the office. Professional skirts and dresses should hit just above or just below the knee, with the maximum length being mid calf.
4. Sensible Shoes – The True Style Killer
While comfort is essential for your feet, the term "sensible shoes" can often correlate with bland, drab, and aging choices. Shoes that are overly practical can detract from an otherwise polished outfit. Choose shoes like the ones above that marry comfort with style, such as chic flats or low-heeled booties that scream sophistication while still being gentle on the feet. Brands have embraced the fact that women want to be comfortable AND look stylish.
5. Avoiding Shapeless Outerwear
A chic blazer is essential for any professional wardrobe, but the alternative — oversized, shapeless jackets — can do just the opposite. Instead, invest in outerwear that cinches at the waist or has structure, bringing your whole outfit together. Choosing an outer layer that flatters your shape can breathe life into a dull outfit.
6. A Little Accessory Magic
Accessories can also dramatically change the way you are perceived. Opt for statement jewelry...think bold and colorful rather than simple and elegant.
Skip the matchy-matchy jewelry. Try mix and match options that show your personality.
7. Embrace Modern Fashion Trends
Age appropriateness doesn’t mean turning your back on the latest trends. Modern trends often feature tailored designs and vibrant colors, which can enhance your look.
Asymmetrical Cuts: They can create unique silhouettes that feel fresh.
Mixing Textures: A blend of materials hones an intriguing look without the fear of looking dated. These on-trend elements elevate your overall aesthetic. The right pants: Choose pants and jeans that are right for your body shape and on trend or you risk looking dated. And be very aware of length, too short or too long and you will not look put together. A crop that hits right above the ankle or a trouser that just breaks on your shoe are perfect choices.
8. The Wrong Undergarments
As we become a bit less firm than we were in our youth, we may find that we need more supportive undergarments and/or different cuts in underwear. If you are shopping in a store that sells clothing with words across the derriere, they probably don't have the underpinnings that are best for you. A great bra will provide lift and support. Finding the right one means that it is also comfortable. Good shaping underneath your clothes will cause garments to fit better and hang properly. Full coverage briefs will produce the fewest panty lines. Make sure to get a brand that doesn't cut into you, and has a smooth edge.
9. The Power of a Good Fit
One of the keys to avoiding garments that age you lies in the fit. When possible, consider:
Tailoring: Investing in a simple tailoring can turn a basic piece into something exquisite. A locally owned tailor can provide recommendations to ensure your garments fit your body perfectly.
Choosing Styles Wisely: Look for designs with flattering cuts that enhance your features instead of smothering them. Just because we may have a little middle aged weight gain does not mean we should take to wearing mumus.
10. Avoid the Mannequins
Don't just wear the outfit as shown on the mannequin at the mall. Those are basic looks for the masses and show no style or personality.
The Color Story of Aging
Now that we’ve discussed some garments, let’s chat about color. Just because you love a particular color doesn’t mean it loves you back. Wearing shades that are too muted or washed out can lead to an aged appearance. Consider the following tips:
Go for Color: Colors can illuminate your face and make you appear more youthful. Constantly dressing in lots of black, navy, and camel feels matronly and boring.
Experiment with Bold Patterns: Floral and geometric patterns can invigorate your wardrobe instead of draping you in drab colors. Choose patterns that are appropriate for your body and workplace.
Cultivating a Wardrobe That Reflects You
Ultimately, dressing is about expressing who you are in that moment. Embrace styles that resonate with your personality while avoiding those that might age you prematurely. Look for pieces that make you feel confident and empowered, while keeping the aging aspect in mind.
When in Doubt, Ask for Help
If you’re uncertain about your wardrobe consider hiring a professional. As great as you are in your career, there are those that are great in this area. Sometimes, an outsider’s perspective, especially one who has the eye and the skills for style, will provide much-needed clarity. They will help you to find your personal style and build a closet that fits your lifestyle.
A Color & Style Consultation can help you to understand your best colors and personal style to rejuvenate your wardrobe. You’ll be equipped with the understanding of what complements your features while avoiding common wardrobe pitfalls, ensuring you’re dressing to impress!
Aging is inevitable, and wonderful, but how you present yourself can influence how others perceive your age. By being conscious of your wardrobe and your choices, you can enhance your youthful essence instead of leaning into trends that age you. Remember, clothing is just fabric, but how you wear it is what truly matters. Fashion should be fun, so play around with different styles until you find what works for you. Visit Your Color Style for expert color and style guidance that can help you revamp your wardrobe while keeping age at bay.
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